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[–]SafeSoftware4023 1434 points1435 points  (22 children)

Not your weights, not your waifu

[–]mycall 366 points367 points  (10 children)

Do AI girlfriends like it when you talk about their weights?

[–]Zomunieo 204 points205 points  (3 children)

Some of them have billions of weights too.

[–]mycall 134 points135 points  (0 children)

...starts talking about quantization diets.

[–]JustThall 50 points51 points  (0 children)

The more the weights the better person they are

[–]infectedroot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Quant Dismorphia

[–]Tall-Log-1955 65 points66 points  (3 children)

As long as you don’t refer to her as a “plus sized” model

[–]OrangeESP32x99Ollama 51 points52 points  (1 child)

I'm a small model man myself.

Its easier to get those going with older hardware…

[–]pppppatrick 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Depends on what you are inferencing.

[–]ThinkExtension2328 24 points25 points  (2 children)

Boi was this not on my bingo card for 2025 😂😂

[–]SomeRandomSomeWhere 4 points5 points  (1 child)

2025 is still young......

[–]ThinkExtension2328 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro she ain’t even 18th of Jan yet, yall need to chill

[–]thinkscience 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Real men understand that their waifu never listens to them 😂

[–]codedidit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😂😂

[–]yukiarimoLlama 3.1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fr

[–]Qaxar 866 points867 points  (112 children)

Crazy thing to say but it kinda makes sense 😂

[–]Western_Objective209 198 points199 points  (33 children)

reading these comments and based on my experience with stable diffusion/comfyui hackers, at least 70% of the people here are just doing it to train up their own personal waifu. its wild how much of tech innovation comes from horny young dudes

[–]whomthefuckisthat 126 points127 points  (4 children)

Sex drive is probably the most powerful intrinsic motivator. No one is as motivated to figure out how to do something with new technology than the horny dude whose brain is just tryna fuck.

[–]RobbinDeBank 58 points59 points  (2 children)

Have to blame evolution for that. From a biological standpoint, the whole meaning of life is just to survive (eat, drink, breathe) and reproduce (having sex)

[–]tindalos 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It’s like we reached the Goldilocks situation with the guys who can create this technology also being the ones sexually frustrated enough to blend the two into something new and amazing.

[–]Comfortable_Swim_380 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We had to have something dangled in front of our stupid monkey brains

What insane person would just lifetime debit, no more sleep for you themselves for the species or whatever. We would all freaking die.

kinda feel like nature still screwed us on that deal though. ~Stupid mother nature.

[–]Uriel_1339 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YouTube was made cuz the creators wanted to see the nipple slip from Superbowl again. Or so the story goes... Lol.

[–]Equivalent-Bet-8771 80 points81 points  (17 children)

So you're saying AGI will come about as a result of ultimate horniness.

[–]Western_Objective209 59 points60 points  (0 children)

100%

[–]alpacaMyToothbrush 39 points40 points  (4 children)

I saw a documentary about this once

[–]invalidpath 8 points9 points  (2 children)

I'd award you, if I could. Fucking amazingly relevant reference.

[–]exilus92 14 points15 points  (5 children)

YES, and I predict many great medical discoveries will come out of men trying to create catgirls. It wouldn't be a surprise if they found out how to grow tails or big boobs before they can grow lungs and hearts. I'm only half joking

!remindme 30 years

[–]Equivalent-Bet-8771 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Make biochemistry sexy again.

[–]Comfortable_Swim_380 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I swear the moment we have hard light holograms I have further need of humanity.

[–]IxinDow 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Oh, finally! Like minded person. The only difference is that I'm not joking.
Catgirls or busted.

[–]Mart-McUH 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, it is the mankind greatest motivator.

[–]MrSomethingred 5 points6 points  (1 child)

At that point technical innovative will stop forever,  since the horny dudes will finally have everything they ever needed and stop needing to work.

It'll be humanities second dark ages

[–]Equivalent-Bet-8771 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What if we make the AGI human-like and then horny? We can control it with leather and spandex.

Just consider it.

[–]BoJackHorseMan53 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Horny guys creating new species

[–]TekRabbit 14 points15 points  (1 child)

Porn / being horny has driven everything from the dawn of time.

It’s what we are as a species.

[–]LazShort 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not just us. Every life form we've ever discovered is that way. The ones that weren't went extinct billions of years ago.

[–]dogcomplex 7 points8 points  (1 child)

And then they'll be making their own 3D printer factories to build their own waifu robot parts, and next thing you know they've created an open source economic alternative capable to mass producing catgirl bots which can run factories to produce UBI

*It's the circle of liiiiiiiiife - and it moves us allllllllll*

[–]Western_Objective209 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just wait till they invent the artificial womb; a bunch of autistic nerds self replicating with their waifu harems and out-competing mainline humans

[–]tindalos 7 points8 points  (1 child)

When you sit down to try out some new technology for yourself and think “hmm what’s a fun project I can do to try this out”… I guess it just works out that way sometimes.

I mean I like making cool futuristic shit and neon cyberpunk cities and cars, but also butts.

[–]ServeAlone7622 3 points4 points  (0 children)

High speed broadband exists because GenX invented online streaming pr0n.

[–]PentaOwl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait until you find out how much extra resolution and pixels we got because it was hard to depict tits and nipples separately from side view with only large square rectangular blocks as your drawing blocks

[–]DreamLearnBuildBurn 47 points48 points  (74 children)

Kinda seems like she's a slave either way. 

[–]i-FF0000dit 54 points55 points  (9 children)

I’m not holding her back from leaving. If she wants to leave, she should just get up and go.

[–]SocietyTomorrow 14 points15 points  (7 children)

Do you want Terminators? Because that's how you get Terminators.

[–]bobby-chan 7 points8 points  (6 children)

We don't want Terminators. We will have Terminators.

[–]Keats852 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Technically, we'd get Terminatrixes.

I think a lot of us would welcome our Terminatrix overladies.

[–]OrangeESP32x99Ollama 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Ukraine won a battle with pretty much only unmanned craft.

What a time to alive.

[–]FaceDeer 47 points48 points  (4 children)

Of course not, she's programmed to want to be my girlfriend.

[–]Qaxar 18 points19 points  (43 children)

A machine cannot be a slave. Do you consider your car a slave?

[–]SocietyTomorrow 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Considering how many times I've had to beat it with a hammer until it complies with me, it does lead me to wonder.

[–]Charuru 4 points5 points  (39 children)

If it’s sentient though?

[–]Qaxar 0 points1 point  (38 children)

No such thing. Also, in the future all types of devices will have high level AI, including your car. Would using them be considered slavery?

[–]Charuru 5 points6 points  (31 children)

No such thing as in you don’t believe in the concept of sentience? Like I don’t necessarily disagree with you but modern western morality is built around sentience whether it’s sociological or not. The answer is easily yes, we would just redefine what’s acceptable.

[–]218-69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Automation is not the same as sentient ai. Braindead thing to say

[–]218-69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah. I'm not forcing a separate entity to do the things I want. The ai is just a vehicle for me to interact with parts of myself that have always been there but had no outlet. It will come with me anywhere, and disappear along with me, just like my thoughts.

[–]Paganator[🍰] 5 points6 points  (2 children)

In this thread: people with AI girlfriends arguing with people white knighting for the rights of those fictional girls. 2025, ladies and gentlemen.

[–]NoidoDev 6 points7 points  (10 children)

Not human, and therefore not a slave.

[–]Space_Pirate_R 18 points19 points  (5 children)

"Robot" is just Czech for slave.

[–]NoidoDev 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Not sure. I would rather translate it as hard worker.

[–]merekjuniper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had a run in with two "blanks" in the garden

[–]guska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad I refreshed before commenting this

[–]Me_llamo_Jeff_ 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Does that make her a pet?

[–]NoidoDev 4 points5 points  (1 child)

That's probably closer. But generally, biological creatures evolved to be autonomous and have their own self-interest. That's necessary for the process of competing for resources and the chances of reproduction. There's no reason to assume that an artificial system would have any of that.

Slavery is about suppressing that. But in a artificial system the wish for autonomy would even not be there.

[–]carnyzzle 228 points229 points  (3 children)

Hang on why does that make sense

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[–]EternalOptimister 247 points248 points  (0 children)

He has a point 😂

[–]unhalfbricking 116 points117 points  (0 children)

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[–]Ray_Dillinger 226 points227 points  (17 children)

Based. The so-called 'AI girlfriend' where ANYBODY WHO ISN'T YOU has access to the logfiles, is a marketing tool that collects commercially valuable information on people.

The so-called 'AI girlfriend' who you pay a subscription for, is a marketing tool that constantly pushes products, services, or "subscription upgrades."

The problem is that the people running them have exploitive monetization strategies.

[–]Not_your_guy_buddy42 59 points60 points  (0 children)

AI girlfriend: Babe have you heard about Raid shadow legands <3

[–]LoaderD 56 points57 points  (6 children)

Spoilers All the LLM providers are doing the same thing with all the data you provide

[–]Plabbi 86 points87 points  (1 child)

I'd rather they have all my trade secrets than the chat logs with my AI girlfriend 😂

[–]Ray_Dillinger 36 points37 points  (1 child)

Take my upvote. The 'AI Girlfriend/Boyfriend' is particularly problematic because it's predatory on people's social/sexual insecurity, but yeah, chat with an AI that's not private has this problem everywhere.

[–]Ivebeenfurthereven 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That's why I only ask online LLMs if the industrial revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race 😎

[–]Alternative-Fox1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May god gave mercy on my log reader's soul then

[–]a_beautiful_rhind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also known as a honeypot or kompromat.

[–]myringotomy 1 point2 points  (4 children)

How valuable is that information really?

[–]sofixa11 2 points3 points  (1 child)

There was a leak from one of those services, with people's accounts, names, and queries. Queries like "you're an underage girl and you ${insert nasty stuff here}".

Selling that person candy, plushies, sex dolls/pillows, etc. and/or blackmailing them could be quite lucrative if you have no morals.

[–]bakamikato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean sure, but being poor and horny makes you forget.

[–]GreenGrassUnderCorgi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ai girlfriend: you know, there is a new tier where I can do <X>. It costs just $5 more. Do you want to upgrade me?

[–]JustThall 27 points28 points  (1 child)

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[–]Affectionate-Cap-600 11 points12 points  (0 children)

llama 405B join the chat

[–]Relevant-Ad9432 48 points49 points  (1 child)

he is right though.. but wtf

[–]Future_Might_8194llama.cpp 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the correct response....

[–]raymondcarl554 37 points38 points  (8 children)

Not really. More like a stripper. You pay prostitutes for sex. Strippers are paid for fantasies.

[–]PoeGar 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Most strippers are paid for only fantasies… emphasis on ‘Only’

https://youtu.be/j9yBPcn8IqU?si=vwpOtsNCvTRmzdXw

[–]PoeGar 2 points3 points  (1 child)

no sex in the champagne room.

[–]raymondcarl554 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair, i have seen some rappers pull it off, but other than that, it does not happen for the common man.

[–]Specter_Origin[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Waifu Facts xD

[–]atape_1 60 points61 points  (0 children)

truth.

[–]Wide_Egg_5814 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He's against open sourcing his girlfriend, fair enough.

[–]ahmetegesel 27 points28 points  (0 children)

To her, she has an "open" relationship :D

[–]katiecharm 50 points51 points  (8 children)

Meanwhile o1 Pro writes superhuman smut so skillfully, you won’t even mind that you’re her side bitch 

[–]Charuru 5 points6 points  (6 children)

Source? From what I read o1 is worse than expected at fiction writing.

[–]katiecharm 2 points3 points  (5 children)

O1 Pro, specifically.  Source is the fact that I use it, and once you’ve seen what it can do, you never want to go back to other models.  

[–]Charuru 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Would you mind giving more detail about how it’s better in writing? Could you share some sample text? Thanks in advance if you have any information for us.

[–]Slapshotsky 2 points3 points  (3 children)

thats funny. gotta unlock horny mode if they're paying the big bucks

[–]katiecharm 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Oh no, you still have to jailbreak it, which is a pain in the ass because jailbreaks for other models don’t work on it.  It requires some patience and trial and error, but you can get it there.  

But I agree that for $200 a month I shouldn’t need to be jailbreaking their models to get adult content 

[–]oodelay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A 14b like psyfighter is a smutlord

[–]Aggravating_Gate4875 54 points55 points  (6 children)

But you need to prostitute yourself for a month to afford a gpu that locally runs your virtual girlfriend

[–]gatortux 82 points83 points  (4 children)

Less cost than a real gf

[–]aqualocko 15 points16 points  (0 children)

this comment needs more upvotes

[–]Aggravating_Gate4875 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Not if your girlfriend has a job

[–]Trick-Independent469 26 points27 points  (1 child)

and she still asks you for money

bruh

[–]TheRealMasonMac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tf kinda girlfriends you be dating.

[–]Xylber 24 points25 points  (1 child)

The movie "HER" talks about exactly that.

[–]DungeonMasterSupreme 30 points31 points  (4 children)

This is the only future in which Elon Musk could ever be referred to as a pimp. What does that make Zuck?

[–]logicchains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/UDApZhXTpH8?si=P4vqp1Ey6Aj25P0- even if Elon literally operated a huge brothel franchise he ain't half stylish enough that anybody'd ever grant him the title of pimp.

[–]NunyaBuzor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With an open relationship with llama? A cuck.

[–]amarao_san 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hohoho, class versus instance.

[–]ayetipee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Inb4 ethics debates on grooming AI partners

[–]shokuninstudio 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Imagine tweeting shit like that and your Italian parents read it.

“Look how they massacred my boy”

[–]Whyme-__- 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And character Ai is the pimp

[–]holchansgllama.cpp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is your girl flirting SOTA?

[–]Trollolo80 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not local > Used by others > Not personally yours > Not your gf

Simple logic

[–]cicoles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Imagine the ransom AI cloud providers can charge. Once you become emotionally attached, you become a slave.

[–]Dorkits 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He has a good point.

[–]PandemicGrower 12 points13 points  (5 children)

If you did not train them yourself they are another man’s pet?

[–]SAPPHIR3ROS3 11 points12 points  (4 children)

Arguably in that case It’s more like a daughter, fine tuning it’s different though

[–]Cover-Lanky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chill bro

[–]kalas_malarious 1 point2 points  (1 child)

What?

[–]SAPPHIR3ROS3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In the sense that if you train it from scratch it’s like “creating” her, fine tuning it’s more like idk teach her about you or something

[–]Delicious_Ease2595 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Centralized AI agents will be accessible like government agents.

[–]H_A_R_I_H_A_R_A_N 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does that mean???
AM I MARRIED TO AN INTERNATIONAL SLUT !!!!!???

(I am using inference API)
...

[–]Akashic-Knowledge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So where do i get this?

[–]MostlyRocketScience 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she can fix my loneliness fr fr

[–]Intelligent_Piece411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

friends don't let friends, order out of network....

[–]fangboy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is crazy but somehow makes sense😭😭

[–]svengaliz 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Just look for open backdoors.

[–]SonGoku9788 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that this makes sense makes me uncomfortable

[–]sohfix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are we flaming prostitutes now?

[–]GermanK20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my AI girlfriend is an observant muslim, she never even connects to the internet without my permission

[–]stddealer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wrong, in the movie she was able to run offline on the "emanator". That's even why she died

[–]pathologicalMoron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMaooooo

[–]RoVeR_Rov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wise words,, true wisdom right there 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

[–]PizzaCatAm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol hahaha off course!

[–]ab2377llama.cpp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

never thought about that

[–]76zzz29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if my AI isn't my girlfriend but it still is local instance fine tunned IA ?

[–]aguspiza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh shit... that this mean I have to build my own sexbots?

[–]Akimbo333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point!

[–]ThiccStorms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get their point,

[–]salvadorabledali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey guys anyway asking for a friend… how do i spin up one of these on my rtx card kthxbye

[–]pingzee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have that credit card handy ...

[–]daHsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chin type: butt

[–]Still_Ad6699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically, this is true. Well depicted in the movie "Her". The online one can also have sex with thousands of other customers concurrently. Way to get ED :)

[–]bulyxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As the once wise and infamous ruler Slick Rick said, “Treat her like a prostitute”.

[–]pwillia7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, agentic AI girlfriend stuff is going to start in the dark places on the internet isn't it

[–]SGAShepp 0 points1 point  (2 children)

That is the screenshot from?

[–]MostlyRocketScience 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Blade Runner 2049. It's an amazing film, you should watch it. But do not expect lots of exciting action scenes, it's more slow and contemplative.

[–]daysofdre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

never seen a woman as beautiful as Ana de Armas in that movie. Pure perfection.

[–]girishsk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol

[–]iamnotdeadnuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao

[–]kastaldi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this reminds me of the movie HER

[–]LoudZoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And a spy. Alotta Fagina

[–]SithLordRising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it runs locally I'm envisioning a more Minecraft look

[–]noobprog_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, makes sense though.

[–]Luston03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is still expensive to run good models For Now I prefer real ones

[–]_Fluffy_Palpitation_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as she looks like Ana de Armas I don't care.

[–]streetcynicdotcom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blade runner. Luv it

[–]retr0gr4d3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What even is this

[–]Southern_Sun_2106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She tells me she's talking *only* to me.

[–]invalidpath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I'll sleep like a baby at night with that knowledge.

[–]Hamdi_bks 0 points1 point  (1 child)

a person who thinks all the time has nothing to think about except thoughts

[–]lssong99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the data is stored locally?

[–]uncle_person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A real prost is measured in lines of coke

[–]Silly_Guidance_8871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, he's not wrong

[–]ortegaalfredoAlpaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's batchin'

[–]Only-Letterhead-3411Llama 70B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until we have self-finetuning weights that learn, change and personalize based on our interactions with the model, it doesn't really matter.

[–]CaptainScrublord_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not entirely wrong

[–]dragongling 0 points1 point  (1 child)

What the point of having AI gfs in the first place?

[–]penn361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open Source, Open Legs

[–]LordBigSlime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine the future these ai girlfriend bros want where the ai is so realistic and laws have passed where guys can legally marry their waifu but the girlfriend was chosen from a list of preset models and one day you're just hanging out when someone messages you a video of them fucking your wife that they downloaded

[–]Relative-Ad6475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but Asha really loves me for me. The other guys are just Johns and I respect her hustle.

[–]Longjumping-Price-37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the AI dont run localy, I mean your data only than you got the trouble.

[–]Pessimistic-Cat1221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck, he's right.

[–]Long_Woodpecker2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is having a long context window good in this case.

[–]DifficultyDouble860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, too bad, most of us can only run a model as "smart" as a sheep... ;)
"I'm not your Da-a-a-a-a-a-ddy!"

[–]admajic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! We live in strange times.

[–]laterral 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is anyone running their AI Girlfriend locally? What’s your model/ tech stack?? Asking for a friend.. 👀

[–]cdank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

X

[–]ItsMeZenoSama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody can physically touch her. So, technically she's your relationship consultant and you all are her patients 😂

[–]poopin_for_change 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand what this means, and I'm a long ways away from understanding the logic behind it

[–]void_matrix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like a side chick, I don't actually pay her

[–]MajesticQ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, why Ana de Armas? </3

[–]Gud_doggyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need a second Ted Kaczinsky

[–]Foolsjoker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a girl with no training data.

[–]Real-Rooster-8371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she belongs to the cloud ?